Like a million other things, the fear of a thing is worse than the thing itself
Yesterday was Andrea's first day back to work after a year. The day before (Labour Day), she had some butterflies and twitches. God love her, she handled it in true Italian fashion: she made brownies. If any single guys are reading this, try to find a woman who vents-out her anxieties in the kitchen. I know, it may seem that you want a woman who blows-off steam in the bedroom, but don't think for a minute that you'll always be able to keep up with that. Then, you'll have a woman that's anxious and frustrated.
Anyway, she had a better day than she was expecting. A few things have changed, but nothing she can't keep up with, and they went easy on her, not overwhelming her at all.
I spent the day with Calli, and asides from her not getting a proper nap, it went well. I got a lot done, and Andrea came home to a pasta dinner, wine and flowers. I was absolutely spent, and pretty witless. I've always honored stay-at-home-moms, knowing full-well that they have a huge job. Now I've got a glimpse of it, and boy-howdy, it takes a lot out of you.
Today is Calli's first day at Daycare. I thought I'd drop her off a few hours before work so I could get some stuff done. I'd heard that it would be hard to leave her the first time, but assumed that the time to write, play bass, vacuum, what-have-you, would be great, not worrying that I had to tend to her at any given moment. Well, I was fine, until I slowed down, and went into her room. Yeah, I'm a little emotional about it. I'm sure it'll get easier, but today, I miss her.
Thanks for all the great comments! I'm glad to hear that autumn is so popular, I thought Spring & Summer were the popular times, so it's nice to hear that I'm not alone. And yes, I think Blogging can go towards a word-count, unless you have a contract, and people are waiting for your work. (I'm looking at you, George RR Martin!)
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You're a super sweet dad, Mr. Will Burke! Leaving the babies does get easier, even though it takes a while. I still tear up on the first day of each school year-and Grace is in 8th grade-because it seems like once you drop them off at daycare that first time, they grow up super fast. But, the socialization is good for her and the time to yourself is good for your brain and your patience. Hang in there!
ReplyDeleteYou Will are much like my late husband when my children were older I went back to work, he used to look after them and on my return always had a meal waiting for me, the housework all done, I was lucky. He used to work the night shift so he used to grab a couple of hours and off to work he did go. Your daughter is a very lucky girl.
ReplyDeleteGood Luck I hope she gets on well at day care.
Yvonne,
I'm glad your first day away went mostly ok. its easier to keep yourself busy. It does get easier- slowly. Yay blogging= wordcount!! sweetness.
ReplyDeleteThis was fabulous, Will! You're a great dad, you know that? I'm glad you are all adjusting, albeit with a few growing pains! (Calli is probably the least bothered!)
ReplyDeleteYou sound like my cousin with his kids - just the most devoted father.
ReplyDeleteYou are King of Cool. Excellent!!!
ReplyDeleteHave a good day, Boonie
What a great husband and Dad! It is an adjustment, but you will all work through it!
ReplyDeleteI hope Calli had a good day! I tend to bake, but
you better grab it quick, there is a time limit on all baked goods at my house. Once I start nibbling...it is given away to the neighbors! lol
You will find your pace! Glad they went easy on your wife~
Letting my children grow, and watching them leave home is the hardest thing I've ever done. They will always be your babies no matter how old they get. If you've never read Rober Munsch's "Love You Forever", you should. I bought my gown boys each a copy for Christmas last year.
ReplyDeleteAw that's such a sweet thing coming from a man! Don't worry, you'll both be okay.
ReplyDeleteWow, it's all change at your house then! I know what you mean about Calli's first day at Daycare. Kids seem to take it more in their stride than the parents.... I bet she had a great time!
ReplyDeleteI hope it has gotten a bit easier for all of you since you posted this. I remember leaving my son at daycare for the first time...This year I took my youngest to her first day of preschool! It goes fast.
ReplyDeleteAs to word count...thank God!
Michele
SouthernCityMysteries
Autumn can't come soon enough for me. It's by far my favorite season. Unfortunately, down here in GA we have to be patient. Fall comes just in time for Thanksgiving!
ReplyDeleteGo ahead and reward yourself. Ice cream. Beer. A nap. Even suoer dads need a nap now and then.
ReplyDeleteStephen Tremp
I hope your'e enjoying this free time. When my youngest began kindergarten, I took it hard. Too bad I'm not an Italian wife who takes (1/2 Italian, terrible baker) because it would've been win-win for my family.
ReplyDeleteIt's not a job for the faint of heart, is it?!
ReplyDeletePearl
Hope things are getting easier and you and Wife are adjusting into the new routine.
ReplyDeleteAhhh, the sound of falling leaves in the breeze. Autumn. Nothing like it :)
I hope that daycare is working out well!! I'm partial to spring and summer. Gotta have it hot and sunny or I get grumpy ;-)
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